AOD O2 harness and A9L/A3M computer = bad
5 speed O2 harness and A9P = will work (but again isnt correct)
If you are running O2's, you must match the o2 harness to the computer.
AOD harness/A9P
5 speed harness/A9L/A3M
DO NOT INSTALL ANY OLD O2 HARNESS ON A CAR WITH A A9L OR A3M COMPUTER. YOU WILL BURN THE BOARD. IF YOU ARENT SURE, THE YOU SHOULD CHECK YOUR O2 HARNESS CONNECTOR.
Just because things plug together doesnt mean all is well. As rednotch has stated over and over again. The o2 sensor harnesses are different because of the neutral start/safety circuitry that is part of them. If you do a trans swap such as AOD to 5 speed, then by all means just leave the AOD o2 harness and computer. Same with a 5 speed to automatic. Leave the 5 speed harness and computer. I am not sure who started the rumor that if you do a trans swap, you must swap the computer. I ran my current car with the A9P for a long long time after I did the 5 speed swap without issues. I have had quite a few others that were automatics with A9L's. Again no issues.